Fall sex-and-dating events

In the Next Room or the vibrator play

Paradigm Shift’s Progressive Single Mingle is a cocktail party for feminists of all stripes; color-coded name tags will help keep orientations straight (People Lounge, 163 Allen St; paradigmshiftnyc.com; Thu 19 at 7pm, $7-$10).

Sarah Ruhl’s In the Next Room or the vibrator play at Lyceum Theatre explores how patients in the 1880s responded to electrical stimulation in all the right places (149 W 45th St; 212-239-6200; opens Thu 19, $46.50-$96.50).

Sex, Drugs & Gefilte Fish: The Heeb Storytelling Collection features 50 crazy stories of nudity, experimentation and poop sandwiches. (Oh, to be young and Jewish!) Join Heeb arts editor Shana Liebman for readings at the powerHouse Arena (37 Main St, Dumbo, Brooklyn; 718-666-3049; Thu 19 7–9pm, free).

Stephen Irwin’s “Sometimes When We Touch” at Invisible-Exports deconstructs and reimagines vintage pornography as abstract art (14A Orchard St; 212-226-5447, invisible-exports.com; through Nov 29, free).

The final installment in Karen Salmansohn’s Prince Harming Boot ‘Em Out Camp finds the relationships expert dishing on everything from breakups to anger management. Because Princess Harmings also roam the land, guys are welcome to atend (Kellari’s Parea Bistro, 36 E 20th St between Broadway and Park Ave; notsalmon.com; Sun 22 at 5pm, $18–$20).

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